Biological need compel women to carry a handbag and make a style statement

Filed Under (Fashion) by sahayjaya on 05-09-2009

Women have been found to carry handbags as a necessity since ages, so much so that it has become an integral part of their personality. You will rarely find a woman on the street or in a store or even in an office without carrying a purse with her. The items they carry in their purse have of course varied over time. In earlier days, beautiful sewing scissors and handkerchiefs were the things that they always carried in the purse. With changing times and needs, it is the mobile phones, credit cards and perfumed tissue papers finding their way into their hand bags. 

Have you ever thought about why women always carry a purse to keep their belongings in contrast to men who manage with just a wallet. I think the need to carry something to hold stuff that women have in their handbags has its roots in the biology of females. Traditionally, in most of the families, women look after all the household things and it is their prime responsibility to see that the needs of each member of the family are fulfilled.

This responsibility is deeply rooted in a female’s mind and she considers herself as the one primarily assigned with the role of the caregiver of the family. It is they who see that all members in the family have with them whatever they need. So when they are putting stuff in their handbag before they are going out, they are just trying to make sure that anything that anyone accompanying them may need, is there in their handbag; if not everything, then at least the basic stuff.

Performing this primary duty of caregiver for the family, she gets into the habit of keeping things which may be required by other people she may meet when she goes out. This is the reason why you will find women carrying, apart from her credit cards, cash and mobile phones, a number of basics stuff that people generally require when they are out of home but never bother to carry themselves, such as tissue paper, pen, comb etc. If you are in the company of your friends and you need a tissue paper, you are most likely to ask your female friend for this rather than from a male friend with you. You will never find men carrying these items with them, who are content with a wallet filled with cash and credit cards.

With a purse always by her side, it does not imply that women have some kind of purse carrying genes in their body. Since they play the biological role of caregiver in the family, they develop the habit of playing the role of making sure that everything and everyone around is in order both physical and psychological. Nobody can bring an order in the entire world but everyone makes a small contribution towards making the world an ordered and organized place to live in. This care giving instinct of females for the family basically translates into the urge to make the world around her ordered having all the basic necessities for the people around her, and hence this habit of carrying a handbag with her almost always. So if you are carrying one, enjoy the style and grace it adds to your personality and be conscious that you are helping the global community become a better place to live.

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